For the gay: Boys meet boys, they have sex, they dated, they broke up. The circle continues unless if they can face all the challenge in life together, tolerate with each other, give and take. Marriage is not really necessary and they can live happily ever after.
But the post today is not to discuss the difference between gays and straight, but it is more about how to handle break up. Lately, few of my friends broke up with their gf and some identified plu still can't move on after broke up with their bf.
Well my advice for them is:
1. Go sleep. After wake up, call me, we go yamcha. Not now, but after your next sleep. Make sure you wake up. - usually this advice is for those who kena dumped by their ex and the ex is their first love.
In fact the best medicine for broken heart is time. Well, at least thats what they told me.
Agree?
Hey, very nice & interesting pictorial formula.
ReplyDeleteHehe..
agree to the max =)
ReplyDeletethe more accurate formula shud be "time used to heal your heart = time used to fall in love with him/her"
for me i think kinda diff. It's true that time can heal but not everyone. Maybe a new person in life can heal the wound better than time ~~
ReplyDeleteIMHO, I don't think time is a medicine. In terms of healing, time is just to measure how fast you can recover.
ReplyDeleteI think the best medicine in terms of break ups is to have rational thinking. To snap out of the misery and know that when there is an end there is also a new beginning. In other words, a positive mind.
@Chen Xing: Ya it is interesting.
ReplyDelete@Jason: sometime will take longer ler. but maybe for some ppl, it is true.
@Sky: But while hurt, it is hard for that person to accept new person, but nonetheless, you are right on "not everyone"
@Bravebear: Well, maybe you are right. But for me, time is what needed for someone to accept the reality and to develop positive mind. Not all will have the positive mind, but as time goes by, he will get more matured, by then maybe he will accept the reality? If depends on time alone, it will take very very long time for the healing. thats why I ask him to call me back after he has his rest and have clearer mind.
ReplyDeleteHowever, for most people, when they are in love, they will lose their rational (not uncommon though) and so it is when they fell out of love. Anyway, thx for your opinion.