Monday, March 21, 2011

Gays' Pride! - we will be married

Oh, dun be fooled by the title, it is not me getting married. The title refer to the engagement between 2 rainbows at the mainland China - MingMing (明明) and ZhiZhi (之之) that occur early this year in GuangXi.

In the breeders world, marriage is an ultimate sign or a sacrifice one made to show their love and dedication on one another. Almost every couples want their relationship to be acknowledge by other people and by the social. In Malaysia, gay couples are not really "blessed" by the social and have to hide their relationship from the community and even from their family except for closest friends or the plu circle.

Marriage is a very big decision and supposed to be sacred. Not to be tainted by adultery and scandal then end up in divorce. Blessed are the child whose parents loved each other.  Some community (in Malaysia) believed marriage is to produce offspring - well can't deny that, but if the wife can't produce children, she will be looked down by the community (sometime is not her fault though). In older China community, if a wife can't produce children within 10 years, she can be divorced and disowned by her husband's family. But in modern days, where people are getting more open-minded, marriage that failed to produce offspring does not have to end up with divorce anymore. The clip following is one of the marriage that really touched my heart.



Now back to gay relationship. Some places in the world is still fighting with their government and their religion body on gay marriage. just from my point of view, marriage or no marriage, it doesn't matter as long as I love someone (PP of coz). In Malaysia, I would have to wait till the cat to grow horn (Kucing Bertanduk) for such event to occur. However for some that is lucky enough to have it, I really have to congratulate them.

Now for Ming Ming and Zhi Zhi, wish them an eternal happy life partnership. It will be a big challenge as when you enter a marriage, open relationship would be a no-no as you pledge your loyalty to someone, to love him with all your life, in poor, in sickness, till death do you part. Given more and more "saliva drooling" hot and beautiful guys emerging days by days - miracle made by the beauty products and gym.

Their engagement poster


Some of their shirtless cute photos

It took me around 20 minute to stream the video from youku, thus I took the liberty to download and upload it here @@


The moment at 4:21 - 4:56 is quite touching, where they sung the song "我只在乎你" (that originally sung by Teresa Tang). 

Wish them a happy life ahead. 

Marriage or no marriage, life have to go on.
Marriage or no marriage, you know how I feel for you.
Marriage or no marriage, I will make you happy.
Marriage or no marriage, I am only yours.

Happy Monday guys. 

5 comments:

  1. sounds kinda... too good to be true in a way

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  2. i don't think its possible that a gay couple will married... even if its illegally, the police will be there to stop it... (thinking about migrating)

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  3. @Jared: Which part?

    @lionfever: tat's why i used the term "wait tille the cat to grow horn" meaning impossible. Migrating? where is your place of choice?

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  4. Yea marriage may not be that significant in gay relationship as compare to straight couples, but somehow, i still long for one. Be it for the thought that we shud be no difference from normal couples and enjoy the wedding feeling of being officially "together" or as a token of appreciation and commitment to the person.

    If i get a chance, i will..

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  5. erm part of it... but its okay I guess?

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