If you unintentionally hurt someone's feeling what will you do?
A. Play dumb
B. Go and explain to him what really happen
C. Wait for him to confront you and explain to him that time
D. Look for third party to cool both side down.
E. Let it be
What if you don't know that you had offense him and he just act cold to you, not telling you anything and just create a barrier between you two, will you
A. Play dumb
B. Go and ask him what really happen
C. Wait for him to confront you and demand explanation from him that time
D. Look for third party to cool both side down.
E. Let it be
Well, there are no right or wrong answer for the above question. All actions bear different result and consequences. And these actions and results are not reversible. So think properly so that you will make a right decision.
To be continued (with a story on what happened to me last time)..........
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Quote of the day:
"No matter how hot someone is, if their attitude is crappy then the hotness factor goes to the North Pole and buries itself"
Lately, a lot of my friend receive a weird conversation from "someone" they know. Well without further delay, please have a look at bottom conversation. The Black square represent the infected account while the yellow square represent the victims. This pic was taken by my friend while they chatting using ymail messenger. Enjoy!
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha, the infected account answered back every reply by the victim. Usually if normalpeople when they reached the second reply, they will ignore straight.
Well, I hoped that any of you when you receive such conversation, just ignore it or try to get id verification from them.
Usually, when I chat with friend, I will use some very common greeting like "hi, name" or "good morning" when in fact it is already afternoon or "wei cb! what are u doing." or "morning sunshine" or just a normal "yo"
However if you answer back to some replies and does not clink on the link, then okay de. If they sent you a link, always beware!!!!
p.s: always put more caution on your friend's characteristic in chatting. Like this case, the infected account usually speak in Malay instead of English =P
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"Better safe than sorry"
William
"If you kiss just anyone, you won't feel anything special because there is no feeling involved"
Had been a busy-rushy day yesterday. My brother had reached Dubai safely this morning. his flight is supposed to be tonight but the changes in the shipping schedule hasten his departure. In the process, it caused me to travel to KL in hurry.He will be at the Arabian coastal line for the next 6 months.
3 years younger than me but he is going to be the next family breadwinner after my father retire next year. He is a sailor, 3rd officer to be more detail and he is NOT gay.
I am the closest to him in the family beside my father. He usually share his problem with me and asked for my advise usually. He is stubborn in nature and has very bad temper. However, he don't dare to raise his voice toward me (yet?) because he knows when I reached my temper, it is 100 fold worse - well I won't hurt him physically just mentally. I don't know if I am good mentally, but so far, I am quite happy with my records - of cos it dun go to the extend of causing ppl to jump from building.
There is a funny "talent" that my brother have. He can spot "fabulous" people from any direction - fabulous as defined by tulsy in his post here. Remember when I said eye can be deceiving? Well nothing can deceive his eye. If a guy is a guy, he will say that is a guy - no matter how feminine he looks like and vise versa(I once give him a website to spot which is guys or girl, he scored all correct). Oh ya, talking about spotting, whenever 1 is near, no matter if from our back direction, he will say "I feel cold, got 1 is nearby". Maybe that talent only go to the dress crosser but not on the gay people, if not, I think i was outed so long time ago.
He is kinda homophobia. Ironic isn't it? i am gay and he is homophobia. I wonder what will happen if he caught me with other guy or if I come out to him in the future, will he disown me?
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Quote of the day:
"Your friends are there at the beginning, they are there when you break up with your partner but they are also there in between time"
Takashi
"Good friends come not knowingly. You don't suddenly decide that person is your good friend. It develop naturally."
I want to share another short film with you guys. Don't know if any of you watched it before but it really worth your 11 minute.
Both of the male actors are so CUTE especially the blond one. <3
I think the director is gay and is purposely trying to bend Thomas - the female actor's boyfriend. Well he succeed. Ahahahaha
Everything sound so nice in French.
Trust me, it really worth your 11 minute. The ending kinda weird though but it opens up all the possibility.
The scene at 6:40 is also very very cute <3
This scene is at 6:17
Well hope you guys will enjoy it. Enjoy your Sunday ya.
Extra info:
Thomas played by Florent Arnoult
Jeremy played by Matila Malliarakis
p/s: Do you sniff your darling's shirt when he is not around???
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Quote of the day:
"Jealousy in romance is like salt in food. A little can enhance the savor, but too much can spoil the pleasure and, under certain circumstances, can be life-threatening."
Coklat Stroberi is an Indonesian gay-themed movie. Api!!!!!! While I was watching it, I was feeling very furious!!!!!!!! Want to really hantam that male actor. Okay first i will "copy-paste" the short synopsis of the film.
"Coklat Stroberi is an Indonesian teenage drama comedy. The two characters, Key and Citra, are best friends. They are living together in rented house in Jakarta. They are students with part time jobs. Family financial problems causes Key to fail paying this year’s rent. Mrs. Ratna, the landlady, finally decided to include of her friends’ sons, Nesta and Aldi, to share with Key and Citra in order to help the girls with the rent money. Their presence has brought a new color to Key and Citra’s life. But, Nesta and Aldi kept with them a secret." (Wikipedia)
Now back to discussion, I doubt any of you will watch the movie as it is in Indonesian language. So there will be a lot of spoiler. Some of the scene did somehow reflects on certain lives of gay in the society. So i will write down some of the issue in the film.
1. Nesta and Aldi are gay couples since their secondary school and had been together for 2 years. Nesta is a typical good-looking hunk played by Nino Fernandez while Aldi is the twinky and a bit effeminate played by Marrio Merdhithia. Nesta want to stay discreet but Aldi don't mind if their relationship is known by others.
2. Key fell in love with Nesta and Nesta found out that he also liked her. He kissed her despite having relationship with Aldi..... no loyalty in gay relationship???
3. Citra considered Aldi as her boyfriend candidate after he helped her in cooking. She tried to seduce him numerous time but also curious about his sexuality after few phone call made by Aldi. Eventhough she failed to be his girlfriend, she help to matchmake Aldi and her boss in the later part of the movie. Aldi, Citra and Key become besties.
4. Nesta questioned about their future with Aldi - what is the outcome of their relationship, will they get married? Nesta also questioned about going public with Aldi, can they ever hold hands in campus area. Nesta also mentioned that their relationship is a mistake made by young people. Nesta also mentioned that Aldi as being naive for believing their relationship can last. Nesta mentioned that the gay relationship has no future.
Grrrrrr in the whole movie, I wonder how many times I cursed that character. He is a jerk!!!!!! #$%^&^%$#@@#
5. Acceptance by family. Aldi come out of closet with his parents. His father kena asthma attack. His mother however asked him to rethink back his statement but there is chances that she is ready to accept him as he is.
6. On Nesta relationship with Key. Nesta explained the reason he chose Key over Aldi is because he loved her instead of afraid on community view on homosexuality. I can't forgive his conversation
"Within these 2 years, you also can sensed my confusion on our relationship. However when I met Key, I know the feeling is real. I hope you will understand and can remain as my friend, no matter what you choose for your life next time"
Grrrrrr I really want to cekik him. If you say confuse for few months okay, but, staying together with another guy who loved you so much for 2 years then ditched him for another girl and asked him to be friend after the betrayal. Grrrrrrrr really want to cekik him.
In this movie, I like Citra's role the best. She is matured and open. She is friendly and smart. She don't have the prejudice toward gay people and is quite supportive toward Aldi. I want a bestie like her. Few scenes where she make up kao kao yet Aldi dun show any interest. hahahaha, really funny,
The movie is available in Youtube. I will put 1 of the episode here.Hope you will watch the movie (which I doubt). Oh ya there are scene where Nesta only wear boxer in the living room.
Recently, in Penang, a housewife lodged a report on the purchase of fake egg at Pulau Tikus. These are the links of the news Here, here and here.
Beside those points in video, another thing that I want to add when identifying the fake egg is, there are no membrane skin that exist usually after the egg shell. Meaning, When we crack open the boiled egg, usually after the egg shell, there will be a thin layer of membrane skin which is quite "leceh" to remove. For fake egg, there are no such layer.
This is what reported but we don't know how long has this circulate and how far had it circulate around. We might have eaten it without knowing it. Nasi lemak vendor might have bought it and dunno that they used fake egg in their nasi lemak. Just to think of the possibility. Maybe I think too much.
Fake egg or even more appropriate, should be called man-made egg. Beside man-made egg, through the same technology, there are man-made grape (fake grape) which is just as hazardous for human health.
Well, this news is quite important and the knowledge to able to identify these fake egg is also crucial as most of us consume eggs as the cheapest and main protein source beside fish. My cousins drink egg drinks every morning and to think that the egg he drank is fake egg..... aiyer, I guess i should call him just to beware.
Well my last word here would be, don't hate the Chinamen for having this technology of creating a fake egg/counterfeit egg/man-made egg. They come out with the technology but it is those with the knowledge who uses it for personal gain should be blame.
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Quote of the day:
"As much as life requires decisions, we still have the option to opt for a different direction to go with. So now, why make life miserable when you can be happy?"
The news of an SIA steward who was found dead 3 days later had been quite disturbing to me. Well not really his death that disturbed, the thinking that the same thing might happened to me and it could had been worse. I am not trying to be insensitive about him. Well hope that he will rest in peace.
As a student who is currently taking Master with thesis and is thinking of furthering for PhD, it is easy to guess that I am aiming for a career as a lecturer or researcher.
Let say in future, I worked far from home, living alone with my cats. If anything is to happen to me, I dun think anyone will know about it. I might have rotted for 6 months before someone found out about me. My mum would think that I am too busy with my work and will leave me alone. My brother who will be a navigator captain won't be on shore for at least 4 months. Mr Pebbles may be too hungry and eat my fingers then run away looking for new owner. My faculty won't give a damn about my absence and my paycheck will keep roll in - even after my "death". The only reason people would look for me will be because my student need my signature for their progress report and since they can't find me, they will start to ask around and come to my house just to know about my well-being.
For now, I called home once in 2 weeks. Sometimes once in a month. Go back to my hometown twice a year, each time won't stay longer than 1 week. To be frank, I prefer to stay here, away from home. I feel more free. Dun have to be nag, dun have to be controlled and can do whatever i want (provided I have the cash). It is clear that in the future, I will come back to KL to stay here or at least go to Kuching.
Well in the end, everyone dies - sooner or later, in happiness or in sadness, in regret or in enlightenment, painless or long painful death, beautiful or ugly death, accident or natural death, everyone will die eventually. Maybe unlike before, my life is all mine now, I no longer have the thinking that my life belongs to others. Seems like life is empty, nothing is scary anymore, not even being alone. So for now, I am ready if I am to die today. Regrets? I have a few, but then again too few to mention. We won't know when our time would be. *puff, our candle of life can just gone like that.
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"We cant predict whats gonna happened, as long as we live happily and never ill-treat ourselves, I guess we will die without regret!"
